The
photo’s on the same shelf, the two of us -
my hair
thick and springy, my saree pleats mussed
by one
dangling leg, much younger limbs draped
across
the armrest, lithe, lighter, well-shaped
body and
spirit. My father on the chair,
wears
his usual dignity and sparser hair.
Both of
us unmindful, quite unaware
that it
was the last time we’d get to share
a seat quite
so closely, the last of times
when his
chairs would feel so completely mine.
We use
up things – arms, armrests, odd cushions
oblivious
of the final occasions.
Someone
clicks a photo by random chance,
it takes
years to get its significance.
It's my father's 21st birthday today. Wishing you happy, and tranquil times ahead, Baba.
Happy Birthday to your Baba, Nila! What a beautiful poem to mark the occasion. Who really understands what goes into the making of a photograph except those within the frame. I love: 'We use up things – arms, armrests, odd cushions
ReplyDeleteoblivious of the final occasions.'
I can see it.
Have a great week, Nila!
Denise :-)
Thank you, Denise! So true what you say about photos - only the people in the frame and perhaps the photographer knows.
DeleteYou have a great week, too. :)
A very Happy 21st to your Baba.
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you for this thought provoking reminder elegantly dressed in a poem.
Thanks for your wishes, EC! Mindfulness does increase with age, but not at the rate required, or when required...
DeleteUmmmm your father is 21? Anyway the poem was quite thought provoking and the imagery really emphasized the significance of every moment we have with loved ones.
ReplyDeleteNo, he's actually way older than that :) but we don't get to celebrate his birthday every year. Glad you liked the poem.
DeleteA moment captured in time can say so much. Both sweet and bittersweet. Happy birthday to your father.
ReplyDeleteThank you. As my loved ones get older, more and more sweet becomes bittersweet.
DeleteHi Nila - yes a happy leaping birthday for your father ... it'd be fun to sit on big pluffy cushions with my father and natter happily for one more day - not to be ... but those days sadly are long gone ...
ReplyDeleteWonderful memories for you - cheers Hilary
Yes, they end too soon...the days of happy nattering... thanks for your wishes.
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