S
is for...Steel
Steel
is what my nerves are not made of. The first thing that got me rattled happened
yesterday - hubby had gone on a business trip to Suva and was supposed to fly
back last night after work. Rang me up to say his flight was cancelled and
there was no space anywhere to be had, so he took a taxi back and was on the
road at dead of night for some four hours, came back at 1:30 a.m. by which time
I was beginning to freak out.
Then
this morning we landed up, by the kind offices of Google maps - at a single track
bridge, which was just a narrow slab of concrete without any guardrails on the
side, laid over a canal. Now we have been used to cars driving on the right
side for 25 years, and Fiji, like India, drives on the left. So we are anyways
tending to veer over on the 'wrong' side and have to consciously keep hugging
the left side kerb. By the time we realised what we were up against, there was
no scene of reversing and taking a different route. Cars on the opposite bank
were flashing their lights at us to get a move on, so there was nothing for it
but to go on. Thankfully nothing happened, we got to the other side
without any problems. But it was nerve wracking for anyone with soft serve
floppy noodle nerves like mine. They were thoroughly wracked.
In the evening around 7:30, we went out in search for some slippers, hubby's have got left behind in that last, forgotten bag, and found much to our dismay that all the shops and markets were firmly shut. Maybe because it's a Saturday, or maybe because shops close early anyway out here in small town Fiji. Incidentally, I spotted a bookstore but couldn't go in obviously because it was shuttered. Then we got lost in the back roads of Nadi and I was terrified that we would somehow land up at that bridge again in the dark and this time there would be no saving us, the car would topple into that canal for sure. There were no streetlights and not much traffic, the GPS was asking us to turn off into even narrower, unsurfaced tracks, no way! So we just went on and on for miles through pitch dark sugar cane fields before we got to a proper lighted road again. From there we managed to get back into roads which we recognised and ended up at an eatery we've been to before. My nerves by then had turned into wobbly jelly.
So
I came back and made this video from archival snaps to soothe them a bit. Here it is
:
I'm glad you found something to eat in the end. And a bookstore to look forward too. I used to be sort of fearless, now my nerves are as floppy as yours.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I find mine have progressively jellified with age. Ten years ago I wouldn't have turned a hair in any of these situations. I have been in similar ones quite frequently in other places. Something has shifted quite radically in the last few years.
DeleteHari OM
ReplyDeleteI love sky, sea and shipping so your short-vid was much appreciated! Also, I was having flashbacks to Nigeria with your description of road conditions, and the fact that dad often had to travel to-fro Lagos, Jos, Port Harcourt... and refused to fly because, well, you know, Nigeria Airways. Pink string and sealing wax were more reliable. YAM xx
T=Thistle
Oh yeah, very reminiscent of Naijja in many ways. That's why I'm thinking settling in should not be so difficult. :)
DeleteWHAT a day. I am so glad you both survived it. And thank you for the video.
ReplyDeleteGlad you liked the video. Came back to the room, made that vid, watched a trashy Bollywood movie on Netflix and calmed down. Today is another day to work on steel reinforcements for the nerves! :)
DeleteHi Nila - it sounds an interesting place to be living in ... I do hope you'll be able to relax and adjust - I did wonder about the 'commute' (which I hope it is not) and that it's just occasionally for a business visit - yet bookshops presumably are mainly a flight away. Take care and I look forward to reading more ... I do love your videos - cheers Hilary
ReplyDeleteMuch better today, thanks. The commute will be long, but not thankfully to Suva. It is indeed going to be occasional overnight business trips only. Roads here are vastly different from the ME so that will take some getting used to. Once that's done, we'll be absolutely fine.
DeleteWhew! I was holding my breath for you on this post
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